Marriage Reset

The women I love working with most are often right where you are. You love your husband. You care deeply about your marriage. And yet you keep finding yourself disappointed, frustrated, hurt—or reacting in ways that don’t feel like the woman you want to be.

I’ve spent nearly 30 years helping individuals and couples understand what’s happening underneath the patterns they keep repeating.

I’m a Licensed Professional Counselor and Gottman Certified Couples Therapist, and over the years I developed the Heart Scan—a Scripture-centered process for helping my clients slow down, see what’s happening in their own hearts, renew their minds, and choose how they want to show up.

The Marriage Reset brings together the work I’ve spent decades doing professionally with what I care deeply about personally: helping Christian women grow in wisdom, freedom, and love right in the middle of their real relationships.

You keep ending up in the same kind of situation with your husband, even though you’ve told yourself you’ll handle it differently next time.

You know how you want to respond, but in the moment you still get upset, overexplain, push harder, or shut down.

You spend a lot of time focused on what your husband is doing and why he needs to change—or wondering why you keep reacting the way you do.

You’re willing to look honestly at your own thoughts, feelings, and responses without pretending his choices don’t matter.

You want a practical, faith-grounded way to understand what’s happening and see what else may be possible.

When you join The Marriage Reset, you’ll receive:

✓ Three 1-Hour Live Zoom Trainings
Bring one recurring marriage situation and apply each day’s teaching to it as we go.

✓ The Finale Masterclass
Learn what to do when the old pattern shows up again in real life.

✓ The Marriage Reset Workbook
Use the guided pages to capture what you’re seeing and practice what you’re learning.

✓ Private SLACK community
Share your takeaways, ask questions, and get coaching support between the live sessions.

✓ Replay Access Through November 18
Can’t make every session live? You can catch up with the replays throughout the week.

After nearly 17 years of marriage, she and her husband had been in marriage counseling, she was doing individual therapy, and she had been working hard on herself and her marriage.

The week before the workshop, Kristen had told her husband she believed they needed to live separately.

There were real problems in their marriage.

During the workshop, Kristen began recognizing how much of her energy had been going toward things she couldn’t control—getting her husband to understand, holding him accountable, and trying to help him see things differently.

In the days that followed, she began to see that his growth belonged to him.

That gave her room to turn her attention toward what she did have agency over: her own heart, mind, and response.

“I don’t have to worry about where our marriage is gonna be in a week or in a month. I know what I need to do to get my heart and mind straight, and in the meantime, I’m just gonna love him and pray that God continues to work on him.”

When I spoke with Kristen afterward, she described herself as feeling like “a totally different person.”

The problems in her marriage hadn’t suddenly disappeared. What changed was where she was putting her energy.

She could see more clearly what was happening inside of her—and what was actually hers to do.

That’s the kind of shift we’ll begin working on together inside

The Marriage Reset.

Why is The Marriage Reset just for women?
The Marriage Reset is designed as a space for women to do their own work together. We’ll have honest conversations about our relationships while keeping the focus on what’s happening in our own hearts, minds, and responses—not diagnosing someone else or figuring out how to get them to change.
Do I have to be married to participate?
No. While we’ll be using marriage situations throughout The Marriage Reset, the tools you’ll learn can be applied to other relationships too. If you’re a woman who wants to better understand your own patterns and how you show up in your relationships, you’re welcome to join us.
What if I can’t attend all of the trainings live?
That’s okay. You’ll have access to the training and Finale Masterclass replays through November 18, so you can catch up on anything you miss. VIP members receive lifetime access to the replays.
Is this only for women who are really struggling in their marriages?
No. You don’t need to have a terrible marriage or be considering divorce. You may simply have one situation that keeps repeating—where you find yourself hurt, frustrated, disappointed, disconnected, or responding in a way you don’t like. That’s enough to bring to The Marriage Reset.
What if there are real problems with my husband’s behavior?
The Marriage Reset isn’t about pretending your husband’s behavior doesn’t matter, excusing something that isn’t okay, or taking responsibility for his choices. There may be very real things you want or need to address in your marriage.

Our focus will be on helping you see more clearly what’s happening, what belongs to you, and where you have agency in how you want to respond and move forward.
What if I’m in an abusive or emotionally destructive relationship?
Some of what you learn inside The Marriage Reset may still be helpful, but this workshop is not designed to provide all of the support you may need in an abusive or emotionally destructive relationship.

For biblically based resources specifically for women in unhealthy and destructive marriages, I recommend Leslie Vernick’s work. https://leslievernick.com/
Is The Marriage Reset counseling or group therapy?
No. The Marriage Reset is an educational coaching experience, not counseling or group therapy. While I bring my professional experience as a Licensed Professional Counselor and Gottman Certified Couples Therapist to the work I teach, participating in The Marriage Reset does not establish a therapist-client relationship with me.

If you are looking for counseling or need individualized mental health support, I encourage you to seek care from a qualified professional in your area.
What are Jill’s spiritual beliefs?
I’m a Christian, and my faith in Jesus is central to both my life and my work. The Marriage Reset is taught from a biblical Christian worldview, and I’ll incorporate Scripture and faith throughout our time together.

You don’t have to believe exactly as I do to participate, but I want you to know the perspective I’ll be teaching from so you can decide whether The Marriage Reset is a good fit for you.
What happens after I register?
You’ll receive an email with everything you need to get started, including how to access your Marriage Reset materials and the details for joining us live. You’ll also receive information about joining our private Slack community before it opens on November 7.
How much time should I plan to spend on The Marriage Reset?
Each of the three live trainings will be approximately one hour. You’ll also want to allow a little time between trainings to work through your own situation in the Marriage Reset workbook. This isn’t an all-day event—you can work through the experience alongside your normal week.
What’s the difference between General Admission and VIP?
General Admission includes the full Marriage Reset experience: all three live trainings, the Finale Masterclass, your Marriage Reset workbook, access to the private SLACK community, and replays through November 18.

VIP includes everything in General Admission, plus a bonus coaching call, Scripture Study, and lifetime access to the Marriage Reset replays.

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