You’re Not Stuck.
You’re Just Not Staying Engaged When It Matters Most.

You’ve stayed committed to a lot of things. But staying with yourself— that’s where it’s been harder.

You start something that makes sense.  

You feel clear for a minute. 

Maybe even hopeful.

 

But then it gets harder to stay with it.  

It’s not as clear. 

Not as motivating. 

Not as easy to follow through. 


 And your attention shifts. 

 You tell yourself you’ll come back to it… 

 But you don’t.


And over time, you start to wonder- 

“Why isn’t anything really changing?” 


 It's not because nothing works. 

 But because nothing has your attention long enough to.


And the hard part is—  

you’re not just trying to grow for the sake of growth.  

You want something real.  

You want to feel close again. 

More connected. 

Less reactive. 

More at peace in your relationships. 

 

You want to show up differently— 

and actually see it change things.  

But that kind of change doesn’t come from understanding more.  

It comes from staying engaged long enough in the process of becoming for things to actually shift.


Clarity+Courage is where that changes.

"I wish I had known these things years ago, before I was so easily offended and shaped by other people’s opinions. Now, I walk in confidence and clarity."


- Carol Beauchemin,
Clarity+Courage Member
Hear from women who stopped starting over—
and finally saw things begin to change.
This is where you stop starting over.

Clarity+Courage is where you stay engaged with the work—  especially when it gets hard, unclear, or uncomfortable.  


Because that’s the moment things usually break down.  Here, you learn how to: 


  •  slow things down 
  •  understand what’s actually happening 
  •  and respond differently—in real time 


So you’re not just thinking about change. 

You’re actually living it.

Inside Clarity+Courage, you’re not just taking in more information.

You’re staying with one process— 

and actually applying it to your life. 
 
Each month, you focus on one area at a time.  
Not everything all at once. 
Not jumping from idea to idea.  
Just one place to stay.

You hear it. 
You slow it down. 
You work through it. 
 And then you apply it— 

in real conversations, 
real reactions, 
real moments. 

Because that’s where things actually change. 
Not when it makes sense. 
 But when you stay with it long enough to respond differently.
Over time, something starts to shift.
When challenges come, you don’t just push past them or shut down. 

 You slow down. 
You work through what you’re feeling. 
You stay present with God in it.

Instead of trying to control everything around you, 
you come back to what’s actually yours—
 your thoughts, your responses, your next step. 

And little by little, you start to notice: 
 You’re not reacting the same way. 
You’re not getting pulled off course as easily.
 
 Because you’re not leaving the work anymore. 
 You’re staying engaged in it.

“I wish this program would have been available in my 20’s—I’ve never seen anything like it! The ongoing help, resources, and relationships are game changers for me. ”

Laura Rott
Member C+C
What Clarity + Courage actually is—
and how it helps you stop starting over.
If you’re wondering what this really looks like in your life, this will walk you through it.
You don’t need more information.
You need a way to stay with what you already know.

Clarity + Courage gives you a steady, flexible way to stay engaged in your growth. 


 It’s for the woman who wants to keep showing up— 
 emotionally, spiritually, and relationally— 
 without feeling overwhelmed or pulled in a hundred directions. 

  • Monthly self-study resources so you can focus and apply at your own pace 
  • Live coaching calls to help you work through what’s actually happening in your life (or catch the replays when it fits your schedule) 
  • A clear process that helps you take small, steady steps—and stay with them 


This isn’t about adding more to your plate. 

 It’s about having a simple way to stay engaged— 

 even when life is busy. 

 So you’re not starting and stopping anymore. 

 You’re moving forward.


Grounded in Scripture and Supported by Brain Science, Clarity+Courage helps you:


  • Experience deeper connection in your relationships—so you feel more loved and more loving 


  • Stay present in your emotions and with God—without shutting down or coming undone 


  • Move through challenges with more clarity and steadiness—instead of overwhelm and confusion 


  • Stop striving and learn how to work with the strength God is already giving you 


  • Find a sense of peace and rest that isn’t dependent on controlling everything around you


Here is what you'll learn to do
HOW TO DEEPEN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS
Using tools like the Talk Table, you’ll learn how to approach your relationships with more awareness and intention. So instead of reacting in frustration or getting stuck in the same conflict, you begin to understand what’s really happening—and respond in a way that creates connection.
THE HEART SCAN PROCESS
A simple, repeatable framework to help you pause, slow things down, and see what’s really going on. Instead of reacting or rushing past it, you learn how to process what’s happening, bring God into it, and respond with more clarity in the moment.
HOW TO RENEW YOUR MIND
Learn how to notice and shift the thoughts that keep you stuck. Instead of getting pulled into the same patterns, you begin to see things more clearly—and respond in a way that aligns with what God is doing in your life.
THE FEEL METHOD

 A simple way to work through your emotions instead of reacting from them. So when something comes up, you don’t shut down or spiral—you learn how to stay present, process it, and move through it with more steadiness.
TAKING ACTION- EVEN WHEN IT'S HARD
Learn how to follow through and take the next step—even when you don’t feel like it. Instead of waiting until everything feels right, you begin to move forward with confidence, trusting that God is at work in you and with you.
 TRANSFORMATION IS A JOURNEY  
Real change doesn’t happen all at once—it happens over time. This gives you a way to stay engaged in the process, so you’re not starting over again—you’re actually moving forward.

You don’t have to keep starting over.
You can stay with the work—
and finally see things begin to change.

"I have grown tremendously not only through the work I have done personally but also by listening and learning from the situations of others...that has been huge for me."


- Michelle Revelle, 
Clarity+Courage Member

“I see a difference in my relationships. When I respond better, my husband responds better. And that has changed everything.”


- Loreen Messerschmidt,
Clarity+Courage Member

"“I was afraid to open up, thinking no one else had struggles like mine. But I’ve learned that healing happens in community.”


- Brenda Rehagen,
Clarity+Courage Member
Here’s how you’ll stay supported:
1. Concepts +Tools 
Each month, you’ll get a new concept, worksheet, and Scripture study—designed to go along with that month’s podcast episodes. So you’re not just listening and moving on. You’re hearing it, slowing it down, and applying it to your real life.
2. Live Group Coaching

Get real-time support with what’s actually happening in your life—so you’re not trying to figure it out on your own. Whether you’re coached or listening in, you’ll see how to stay engaged in the moment and respond differently.
 3. Interactive Worksheet Workshop
Bring your worksheet and work through the process in a focused, guided way—so you actually apply what you’re learning. You’ll be alongside other women doing the same work. You can share or listen, and you’ll leave with more clarity and momentum. Replay available if you can’t make it live..
BONUS #1:
On-Demand Library
On-Demand Library Access past calls, concepts, and worksheets whenever you need them. So you can revisit what’s helpful, stay engaged, and keep moving forward—at your own pace.
Additional support to help you stay engaged:

BONUS #2  -  VALUE: $300

Workshop: How To Stop Being Disappointed In Your Relationship & Ignite Joy

 A 3-hour workshop to help you understand what’s really driving your disappointment—and how to respond differently. 


  •  The real reason you feel disappointed 
  •  What it looks like to open up new possibilities 
  •  How to turn that into real, lasting change 


 You’ll get simple teaching, a guided workbook, and a real coaching replay—so you can see how this work actually plays out in real life.

BONUS #3  -  VALUE: $150

-Exclusive to Annual Members: This bonus is only available when you commit to a full year of Clarity+Courage

1:1 "Before & After" Coaching Call with Jill

A private session to look at what’s actually keeping you stuck—and

what needs to shift. You’ll walk away with more clarity, a fresh perspective, and a clear next step for your relationships and life.

Program Pricing

“I wouldn’t waste any time debating. The value is incredible, and the transformation is real. Get off the fence and just go for it!” 

-Carol Beauchemin,  Clarity+Courage Member

ONE MONTH SUBSCRIPTION. 
 AUTO RENEWS UNTIL YOU CANCEL.
$99

Includes...

New Monthly Concept & Video Lesson to inspire you

Fresh Worksheet each month to apply  concepts to your actual life 

Monthly Scripture Study Sheet to help you stay grounded in God's Word

Live Coaching Call with Jill each month to help you gain insight and grow

Monthly Worksheet Workshop with Coach Stephanie to encourage you and surround you with support 

BONUS #1: Access to an on-demand library of previous course content, call replays and worksheets

BONUS #2:  Workshop- How To Stop Being Disappointed In Your Relationship and Ignite Joy

ONE YEAR SUBSCRIPTION
- ONE PAYMENT OF
$729

Includes...

Everything that month-to-month  subscribers get 

A 35% Savings

Locked in price for Automatic Annual Renewal unless you cancel

BONUS #3: Private "Before & After" Coaching Call with Jill- 50 minutes


Less than $2 a day!!

ABOUT THE CREATOR

Jill Lillard, MA LPC

Meet Jill Lillard Jill Lillard is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Gottman Certified Couples Therapist with over 25 years of experience helping people navigate their emotions and relationships. 


 Her work brings together a biblical perspective, emotional processing, and practical tools—so you’re not just understanding more, you’re actually able to live it out. 


 She created Clarity + Courage to give women a simple way to stay engaged in their growth—so they can stop starting over and begin to see real change in their relationships and everyday life. 


 Jill is also the host of The Happiest Lives Podcast, where she teaches how to think, feel, and live with more clarity, steadiness, and purpose.

Still Have Questions? I Have Answers!
  • How much time is required to participate?
    You get to decide how much time you want to invest as there is a vault full of past concepts and call replays to access.

    There are 2 hours of new calls each month, and you can expect to devote 30-90 minutes to new concepts in self-study.

    I recommend making a decision about when you will do this work and putting it on your calendar. Many of the participant's report including the lessons in morning quiet times.
  • How does billing work?
    You get access to everything in the vault the day you join. Depending on the plan you choose you will be charged annually or monthly to auto-new unless you decide to cancel.

    As long as you are a member, you will be locked into the price you joined, even if I raise my rates.
  • What are the components of this program?
    Clarity+Courage includes a combination of self-study/application and LIVE calls.

    ✅Each month, a new concept will unlock inside www.myhappyvault.com. You will get a login for the program and can save it to your home screen to create an app-like experience, making it easy to access.
    ✅ For each new concept, you will get worksheets to help you apply what you are learning and a Scripture Study that you can use to expand your study.
    ✅ Once a month, we will meet for LIVE Coaching with Jill. You can attend this call or watch the replay. You can volunteer to be coached or watch as an observer. You can get a lot out of watching someone else get coached.
    ✅Once a month, Coach Stephanie will facilitate The Worksheet Workshop. This is where you can process your worksheets with other women and a coach. It is a great way to connect in a structured but genuine setting.
    ✅When you join, you get immediate access to The Clarity+Courage Vault, where you will find a library of concepts, worksheets, and call replays.
  • When are the LIVE calls?
    Currently, coaching calls with Jill are on the 2nd Tuesday of each month at 7am PT|8am MT| 9am CT|10am ET. Calls are 1 hour.

    The Worksheet Workshop is the 4th Tuesday of each month with Coach Stephanie at the same time of day.

    Replays are available for all calls.

    Call times are subject to change
  • What are some of the concepts/classes I can find in the vault?
    ⭐️Hard Conversations Made Easy
    ⭐️4 Steps To Overcome Overwhelm
    ⭐️Believing New Thoughts
    ⭐️Master The Talk Table To Invite Better Conversations
    ⭐️How to Deepen Understanding So You Can Move Past Gridlock
    ⭐️Compromise Like You Love Each Other
    ⭐️Making Up After A Fight: Slowing Down, Repair Attempts and Moving Forward
    ⭐️Money Mindset
    ⭐️How To Get Things Done
    ⭐️2-Step Process for Experiencing Anxiety, Worry & Fear
    ⭐️Desire, Wanting & Having
    ⭐️Other People's Models: Stay In Your Lane So You Can Love Better
    ⭐️When You Are Tired, In A Funk or Ready to Quit
    ⭐️Stop Being Confused
    ⭐️Get Over Your Past
    ⭐️Are You Having Fun Yet?
    ⭐️Cultivating Emotional Intimacy
    ⭐️Discover Your Purpose-filled Life
    ⭐️Planning Your Personal Spiritual Retreat
    ⭐️Supercharge Your Mornings
    ⭐️How To Feel
    ⭐️Discernment & Decisions
    ⭐️Effectively Reroute and Redo Conversations Using The Heart Scan
    ⭐️Becoming Who You Already Are
    ⭐️How To Have A Happy Life
    ⭐️Better Conversations
    ⭐️Being & Doing
    ⭐️Relationship Foundations
    ⭐️The Heart Scan Process
    ⭐️5 Worthy Transformations
    ⭐️The Surrendered Self
    ⭐️How To Get Your Relationship Back On Track
    ⭐️Thinking About What You Are Thinking About

    ... and so much more.
You don’t have to keep starting over. You can stay with the work—and finally see things begin to change.

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 • 60 Thought Capturing Sheets to process thoughts and emotions.
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