BECOME THE WOMAN GOD SAYS YOU ALREADY ARE
Steady Support. Steady growth. A simple monthly framework to help you stay engaged-- so you can stop buffering, break free from overwhelm, and experience greater JOY in your relationship with Jesus, Others, and Yourself.

"“I wish I had known these things 20 years ago before I was so easily offended and shaped by other people’s opinions. Now, I walk in confidence and clarity."


- Carol Beauchemin,
Clarity+Courage Member
Watch This Video To Hear What Women Are Saying About Clarity+Courage
Join Jill M. Lillard MA LPC , Founder of The Happiest Lives, and unlock what’s truly possible when you combine a Biblical approach, brain science, and a commitment to  renew your mind, honor your emotions, and strengthen your relationships.

With over 25 years of experience, Jill brings Christ-centered wisdom, clinical expertise, and practical tools to help you break free from cycles of disappointment, build deeper relationships, and live in the fullness of God’s promises.

You Don’t Need to Strive Anymore. Growth Comes Naturally When You’re Anchored.


You’re a woman who loves growth. You read the books, listen to the podcasts, take notes in Bible study. You know what to do.

So why does life still feel the same? 

 
Why do you keep falling into the same patterns? 

There is a reason and there is a wonderful way through it.

Right now it feels like...

 • You start strong with new habits, but motivation fades. 

 • You tell yourself, I’ll get serious when life slows down—but it never does. 

 • You feel overwhelmed, stuck in procrastination, or spinning in the same struggles. 

 • Your relationships feel transactional—just a series of to-do lists and responsibilities. 

 And underneath it all, there’s frustration. 

It can feel like "doing the work" always falls on you...
 • You keep hoping your husband will do the work with you. That you’ll finally get on the same page. But every conversation ends in arguments and disconnect.
 
 • You long for your kids to follow your lead, but you feel like you’re the only one trying.
 
 • You wonder when someone else will step up, invest in the growth, and meet you in the middle. 
 

So you push through. You keep things running. You do what needs to be done.
 
And when the frustration builds?   ...You cope. 

 You stay busy. You scroll. You snack. You shop. You fill the space with something. 

 But no matter how much you consume, nothing truly fills the emptiness inside. 

And the hardest part? 

 You’re the only one who seems to notice.


What If Life Could Feel Completely Different—Without Waiting for Anyone or Anything to Change?

You’re still a woman who loves growth—but now, it’s not just something you learn about. It’s something you GET to live.


IMAGINE...

 
  • Instead of getting stuck in the same patterns, you feel steady, present, and in control.  


  • When your plans change last minute, instead of feeling frustrated and overwhelmed, you adjust with peace and confidence.  


  • When someone says something hurtful, you don’t spiral into self-doubt—you recognize their words don’t define you.  


  • When emotions rise—whether it’s anxiety, sadness, or anger—you know exactly how to process them instead of stuffing them down or reacting impulsively. 

And underneath it all?

...There’s peace.
You no longer feel like it all falls on you.
 • When your husband seems distant, instead of overanalyzing or shutting down, you approach the conversation with clarity and strength. 

 • When your kids push back, instead of feeling unappreciated and exhausted, you lead with calm confidence, trusting the bigger picture. 

 • When you need rest, instead of feeling guilty, you honor your limits—because you know that taking care of yourself allows you to love others well.  

You no longer just push through. You live with intention.

  • When challenges come, you don’t numb out. You know exactly how to process emotions, lean into God, and take the next right step. 


  •  Instead of trying to control everything around you, you focus on what God has called you to steward—your heart, your mindset, and your choices.  


  • Instead of letting fear keep you small, you step forward in faith, knowing you are fully equipped for what’s ahead. This isn’t about fixing yourself. It’s about becoming the woman God says you already are.

INTRODUCING 

THE HAPPIEST LIVES COACHING AND TOOLS...

“I wish this program would have been available in my 20’s—I’ve never seen anything like it! The ongoing help, resources, and relationships are game changers for me. ”

Laura Rott
Member C+C

What Is Clarity + Courage? Everything You Need to Know 
Watch this video to learn how it works—and how it can help you get unstuck and move forward.
You don’t need more information—you need a structured way to apply what you already know.

 

CLARITY+COURAGE  offers a steady, flexible approach to personal growth. It’s for the woman who wants to stay engaged in her emotional, spiritual, and relational health without feeling overwhelmed. 


 • Monthly self-study resources so you can grow at your own pace. 

 • Live coaching calls to provide insight, encouragement, and direction (or catch the replays whenever fits your schedule ). 

 • A clear process that helps you take small, steady steps toward lasting change. 

 This isn’t about adding more to your plate. It’s about having a simple, structured way to keep moving forward—even when life is busy.  If you’re tired of starting and stopping… if you want a space to stay focused and on track… Clarity+Courage was made for you.


Grounded in Scripture and Supported by Brain Science, Clarity+Courage will:


  • Equip you with tools to experience deeper connections in your relationships so you can feel more loved and loving


  • Help you come as you are, welcoming the Holy Spirit into your emotional life so that you can feel anything without coming undone


  • Support you in navigating life’s challenges with clarity, confidence, and peace so you can get out of overwhelm and confusion


  • Empower you to strenuously contend with all the energy Christ so powerfully works in you rather than striving harder and burning yourself out


  • Encourage you to enter the rest of God and claim an expectant  joy that is not contingent on controlling everything and everyone in your world


You Will Learn...

Foundational Elements

HOW TO DEEPEN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS

Using tools like The Talk Table, you will learn how to approach relationships with  grace, understanding, and intentionality. Shift from frustration and conflict to deeper connection, knowing that true change starts with you.

Foundational Elements
THE HEART SCAN PROCESS

A  simple framework that will help you pause, slow down, and approach any problem that comes your way. Deep dive into your heart and discover what God is teaching you in every situation. Gain fresh perspectives on challenges, uncovering what else is possible.

Foundational Elements
HOW TO RENEW YOUR MIND
Learn how to take thoughts captive so you can move into the new thing God is doing, releasing thoughts that no longer serve you. Implement practical strategies that make Scripture come alive in your everyday life.

Foundational Elements
THE FEEL METHOD

The FEEL Method will guide you through processing your emotions, turning them into an invitation for spiritual and emotional growth.
Foundational Elements
ACTIONS DESPITE UNWANTED EMOTIONS
 Gain the ability to leave the past behind, press on and take action, even in the face of discomfort, trusting that God is working in you and for you for His glory and your good. 
Foundational Elements
 TRANSFORMATION IS A JOURNEY  

You are already fully loved by God, but the process of becoming who He created you to be is ongoing. Let me walk with you through this journey of growth.

Ready to get started?

"I have grown tremendously not only through the work I have done personally but also by listening and learning from the situations of others...that has been huge for me."


- Michelle Revelle, 
Clarity+Courage Member

“I see a difference in my relationships. When I respond better, my husband responds better. And that has changed everything.”


- Loreen Messerschmidt,
Clarity+Courage Member

"“I was afraid to open up, thinking no one else had struggles like mine. But I’ve learned that healing happens in community.”


- Brenda Rehagen,
Clarity+Courage Member
Get The Support You Need

YOU'LL GET IMMEDIATE ACCESS TO:

1. Concepts +Tools 
Each month, get a new concept, worksheet, and Scripture Study to help you learn, apply, and grow. Discover how to process emotions, align your thoughts with God’s Word, and see new possibilities—even in challenges.


2. Live Group Coaching
Join our live coaching calls for real-time support, fresh insights, and new ways to tackle challenges. Whether you’re coached or just observing, you’ll gain powerful takeaways to grow and transform your life.
 

 3. Worksheet Workshop
Bring your worksheet and join an interactive workshop with other Christian women for clarity, connection, and fresh perspectives. Share or listen—you’ll walk away inspired and supported. Can’t make it live? Catch the replay anytime!

BONUS #1:
On-Demand Library
Access your on-demand library with call replays, past concepts, and worksheets—all at your own pace, like Netflix. Whether you need inspiration, support, or a refresher, it’s always available to fit your schedule.
PLUS, DON'T MISS OUT ON THESE ADDITIONAL SPECIAL BONUSES...

BONUS #2  -  VALUE: $300

Workshop: How To Stop Being Disappointed In Your Relationship & Ignite Joy

 This exclusive three-hour workshop will guide you through a powerful process to shift disappointment into growth and joy. 


 • Hour 1: The Real Reason You’re Disappointed in Your Marriage 

 • Hour 2: Igniting the Possibility of Joy 

 • Hour 3: Turning Disappointment Into Lasting Change  


You’ll receive three lessons to lay the foundation, a workbook to help you apply the concepts, and a replay of a live coaching calls, where you’ll witness real coaching in action. This workshop will equip you with a clear process to navigate disappointment and move toward more fulfilling relationships.

BONUS #3  -  VALUE: $150

-Exclusive to Annual Members: This bonus is only available when you commit to a full year of Clarity+Courage

1:1 "Before & After" Coaching Call with Jill

Where you are now is just the starting point. In this powerful one-on-one private session, Jill will help you see exactly what’s keeping you stuck and what needs to shift to create real change—whether in your marriage, relationships, or life. You’ll walk away with clarity, a new perspective, and the next steps to move forward with confidence.

Program Pricing

“I wouldn’t waste any time debating. The value is incredible, and the transformation is real. Get off the fence and just go for it!” 

-Carol Beauchemin,  Clarity+Courage Member

ONE MONTH SUBSCRIPTION. 
 AUTO RENEWS UNTIL YOU CANCEL.
$99

Includes...

New Monthly Concept & Video Lesson to inspire you

Fresh Worksheet each month to apply  concepts to your actual life 

Monthly Scripture Study Sheet to help you stay grounded in God's Word

Live Coaching Call with Jill each month to help you gain insight and grow

Monthly Worksheet Workshop with Coach Stephanie to encourage you and surround you with support 

BONUS #1: Access to an on-demand library of previous course content, call replays and worksheets

BONUS #2:  Workshop- How To Stop Being Disappointed In Your Relationship and Ignite Joy

ONE YEAR SUBSCRIPTION
- ONE PAYMENT OF
$772

Includes...

Everything that month-to-month  subscribers get

A 35% Savings 

Locked in price for Automatic Annual Renewal unless you cancel

BONUS #3: Private "Before & After" Coaching Call with Jill- 50 minutes












ABOUT THE CREATOR

Jill Lillard, MA LPC

Jill Lillard is a Licensed Professional Counselor, Certified Gottman Couples Therapist, Certified Life Coach through The Life Coach School, and Certified Brain Health Practitioner through the Amen Clinic. 


With over 25 years of experience, Jill has helped people navigate their desires, emotions, and relationships. As the creator of The Happiest Lives Coaching Programs, she empowers Christian women to live, love, and lead purposefully by deepening their relationship with God and developing emotional, spiritual, and relational resilience. 

 

Jill’s approach helps people capture their thoughts and renew their minds to take action despite unwanted emotions. She believes in leveraging emotions for spiritual growth and transformation rather than avoiding or numbing them. Jill offers practical tools like Heart Scanning and the FEEL Method to help her clients approach their feelings with grace and clarity.

 

Through her coaching programs, including Clarity + Courage and The Happiest Lives Academy, Jill provides steady support and guidance to women ready to experience meaningful change in their lives and relationships. A passionate advocate for transformation, she believes in the power of God’s love and wisdom to shape every woman’s journey, helping them become the woman God says they already are. 

 

Jill is  the host of The Happiest Lives Podcast, where she shares insights on faith, personal growth, and navigating life’s challenges and relationships with a Christ-centered perspective.

Still Have Questions? I Have Answers!
  • How much time is required to participate?
    You get to decide how much time you want to invest as there is a vault full of past concepts and call replays to access.

    There are 2 hours of new calls each month, and you can expect to devote 30-90 minutes to new concepts in self-study.

    I recommend making a decision about when you will do this work and putting it on your calendar. Many of the participant's report including the lessons in morning quiet times.
  • How does billing work?
    You get access to everything in the vault the day you join. Depending on the plan you choose you will be charged annually or monthly to auto-new unless you decide to cancel.

    As long as you are a member, you will be locked into the price you joined, even if I raise my rates.
  • What are the components of this program?
    Clarity+Courage includes a combination of self-study/application and LIVE calls.

    ✅Each month, a new concept will unlock inside www.myhappyvault.com. You will get a login for the program and can save it to your home screen to create an app-like experience, making it easy to access.
    ✅ For each new concept, you will get worksheets to help you apply what you are learning and a Scripture Study that you can use to expand your study.
    ✅ Once a month, we will meet for LIVE Coaching with Jill. You can attend this call or watch the replay. You can volunteer to be coached or watch as an observer. You can get a lot out of watching someone else get coached.
    ✅Once a month, Coach Stephanie will facilitate The Worksheet Workshop. This is where you can process your worksheets with other women and a coach. It is a great way to connect in a structured but genuine setting.
    ✅When you join, you get immediate access to The Clarity+Courage Vault, where you will find a library of concepts, worksheets, and call replays.
  • When are the LIVE calls?
    Currently, coaching calls with Jill are on the 2nd Tuesday of each month at 7am PT|8am MT| 9am CT|10am ET. Calls are 1 hour.

    The Worksheet Workshop is the 4th Tuesday of each month with Coach Stephanie at the same time of day.

    Replays are available for all calls.

    Call times are subject to change
  • What are some of the concepts/classes I can find in the vault?
    ⭐️Hard Conversations Made Easy
    ⭐️4 Steps To Overcome Overwhelm
    ⭐️Believing New Thoughts
    ⭐️Master The Talk Table To Invite Better Conversations
    ⭐️How to Deepen Understanding So You Can Move Past Gridlock
    ⭐️Compromise Like You Love Each Other
    ⭐️Making Up After A Fight: Slowing Down, Repair Attempts and Moving Forward
    ⭐️Money Mindset
    ⭐️How To Get Things Done
    ⭐️2-Step Process for Experiencing Anxiety, Worry & Fear
    ⭐️Desire, Wanting & Having
    ⭐️Other People's Models: Stay In Your Lane So You Can Love Better
    ⭐️When You Are Tired, In A Funk or Ready to Quit
    ⭐️Stop Being Confused
    ⭐️Get Over Your Past
    ⭐️Are You Having Fun Yet?
    ⭐️Cultivating Emotional Intimacy
    ⭐️Discover Your Purpose-filled Life
    ⭐️Planning Your Personal Spiritual Retreat
    ⭐️Supercharge Your Mornings
    ⭐️How To Feel
    ⭐️Discernment & Decisions
    ⭐️Effectively Reroute and Redo Conversations Using The Heart Scan
    ⭐️Becoming Who You Already Are
    ⭐️How To Have A Happy Life
    ⭐️Better Conversations
    ⭐️Being & Doing
    ⭐️Relationship Foundations
    ⭐️The Heart Scan Process
    ⭐️5 Worthy Transformations
    ⭐️The Surrendered Self
    ⭐️How To Get Your Relationship Back On Track
    ⭐️Thinking About What You Are Thinking About

    ... and so much more.
Join Us Inside Clarity+Courage Today!

FOR AN ANNUAL PAYMENT OF $772 OR $99 For A Month-to-Month Subscription

Both Plans Auto-Renew Until You Cancel

Contact information

Billing address

Choose a pricing option

  • Preferred option
    Monthly Subscription ($99)$99.00/mo
  • Preferred option
    Annual Subscription (save 35%)$772.00/yr

Don’t Miss This Special One-Time Offer!

For just $49, get two powerful journals mailed to your home to deepen your faith and personal growth!
What’s Included?
The Listening Heart Journal (198 pages)
 • A meditative Bible study journal to help you reflect on scripture.
 • Includes a lesson on how to read your Bible as a listener.
 • Features daily template pages and a weekly reflection guide.

 The Happiest Lives Journal (2-month guided journal)
 • 60 Thought Capturing Sheets to process thoughts and emotions.
 • 60 Heart Scan Templates to look at any problem  with clarity.
 • 60 Daily Scripture & Prayer Pages for turning toward the Lord.
 • 60 Idea & Dream Download Pages to inspire and gain insights.
 • 60 Quick Day Planning Sheets for organizing your day.

 Both journals are beautifully spiral-bound for easy use! This special offer won’t last—grab yours now!

Payment information

You will not be charged for this purchase, but if you choose to make an optional purchase later, this card info will be used to complete that transaction!

Processing...
  • Total payment
  • 1xClarity$0
    -+

All prices in USD

    Powered by
    © 2025+

    This site is protected by reCAPTCHA and the Google Privacy Policy and Terms of Service apply.