A five-month immersive journey for women who are ready for a breakthrough.









"Besides becoming a Christian, the Academy has been the most transforming experience of my life. I am free from many strongholds that I’ve been in bondage to my whole life—shame, perfectionism, depression, legalism, neediness, anger, gossip, judgment—and I have become (and am becoming) a beloved, beautiful, powerful daughter of the King. I can truly say it is the best money I have ever spent in my life."
• A proven, faith-based framework
• Powerful tools for lasting transformation
• A small, intimate cohort of Christian women walking this journey alongside you


You’ve built a beautiful life. You’re intentional about your faith, your relationships, and your personal growth. You’ve done the inner work,
And yet you have this feeling that you're being called for something more...
There’s another level of transformation waiting for you.
One where you go from sometimes feeling better to truly living the transformation you were always meant for.
How do you know?
- You’re craving momentum. You don’t want a slow, casual process—you want deep breakthroughs and daily progress.
- You're graduating from of self-led growth. You're done circling back to old patterns on your own. You're feeling the pull to get a higher level of support, coaching, feedback, and accountability.
- You’re done waiting. You don’t want to keep saying “I’ll prioritize myself later.” Later is now and you are ready for your new future.
- You want real change. Not just mindset shifts, but lasting transformation in how you think, feel, and show up every day.
- You want to reconnect with your fire. You feel ready to rediscover your passions, your dreams, and the woman you knew you would become.

You’ve carried so much on your own for so long, and now you get to feel fully supported and seen and guided in this next chapter.
- You'll have the space to be honest, to process all your emotions fully, and feel truly supported in moving through what's coming up for you.
- Rather than hoping for change, you'll receive real and compassionate accountability and guidance to support you in taking specific actions and witnessing real changes taking place within you and around you.
- Get ready for those deep, soul-level transformations—the kind that shifts how you live, love, and lead.
You’re Ready to Go All In.
This isn’t about just consuming more knowledge.
This isn’t about waiting for the right time.
This is about becoming the woman your younger self always imagined.



"I was very much struggling in my marriage, and I knew I needed something Christ-centered to help me work on my part of the equation. In The Happiest Lives Academy, my eyes have been very open to what I can and cannot control, and I’ve begun to transform my mind to His mind—and it is making a huge difference. There is a real community in the Academy that goes deep and establishes a beautiful trust and family… they are like sisters to me!"

"I needed better ways to respond to the challenges and the people in my life. Because of my work in The Academy, I now have tools that help me stay present and work through things without stuffing them or ignoring them—I have become more of myself, willing to be real and show up as me! There were so many avenues of support, and I’m so thankful for the accessibility of the coaches, the encouragement in Slack, the live calls, and the worksheets that helped me process my thoughts and get the results I wanted. Past programs hadn’t worked for me, but I’m happy I leaped at this!”"

" I will always remember the safe place I found in the Academy, the closeness I felt to other women, and the beauty and wisdom I witnessed in Jill’s teaching. The support we received was constant and thorough, and the Zoom calls, Slack community, and monthly coaching created an open door to express, grow, and apply truth to our lives. The teaching is stocked full of diamonds and riches for life—love them!"

Claim Your Act of Becoming and Experience Life the Way You Were Always Meant To.
You spent so much time striving—chasing the next breakthrough, hoping for transformation, waiting for the right time. Now its your turn to relax fully into your next chapter.
Step into your Act of Becoming where you can ...
- Go from hoping for change to feeling it on such a genuine, personal level that it impacts both you and others in profoundly new and positive ways.
- Go from waiting for the perfect moment or circumstance, to feeling joyfully committed to your capacity for growth on a soul level.
- Go from figuring it out alone, to feeling surrounded by the support, tools, and structure you've always craved that help you to move forward—every single day.
- Feel a sense of calm, emotional peace that guides you and offers you clarity in all of your interactions, including difficult conversations or overwhelm.
- Embody grounded courage that comes from knowing you have an unshakable support system. You're surrounded by women who truly see you, who challenge and encourage you, and who walk with you through the real work of transformation.
- Show up differently in your relationships. You’re not reacting anymore—you’re leading with wisdom, setting boundaries with love, and creating deeper, more meaningful connections.
- Trust yourself FULLY. No more overthinking or feeling uncertain about your next step. You make decisions from a place of strength, knowing that whatever comes next, there is nothing you and the Lord can't handle together.
- Surrender and allow God to do His work. Instead of resisting discomfort or avoiding the hard stuff, you lean in. You allow the Holy Spirit to comfort, correct, and guide you.
- Feel steady—no matter what life brings. Hard things still happen, but they don’t knock you down or impact you in the same way at all.




"I felt I was dying on the vine spiritually and emotionally—disconnected from God, my husband, and my life, stuck in quiet desperation. In The Academy, I learned to live an intentional life, where I choose what to think, and that was the missing link in my Christian walk. The Heart Scan helped me shift from hopelessness to truth, inviting Jesus into my pain and remembering, He will never leave me or forsake me. I have attained more peace than I ever thought possible, become more hopeful and loving toward my husband, and I now see how very much God loves me—I had let that truth become dim."
This Isn’t Just Another Season of Growth... It’s Your New Way of Living.
You no longer wonder if you’re making progress—
you see it in how you think, feel and how you move through life.
You no longer wait for life to change—you are the change.
And perhaps most beautifully of all—
You’ve become the woman your younger self always imagined.
Not because you chased perfection.
But because you learned to embrace the journey of becoming.
You’ve done the deep work.
You’ve built the foundation.
And now?
You’re finally living in the fullness of who God created you to be.

"During these five months, God has walked with me through past pain, bringing healing to hurts I thought would always be a backdrop to my story—and in doing so, He has brought healing to some of my most important relationships. The best part is that God has brought JOY and HOPE back to my heart and life. I keep becoming more and more the wife, mom, daughter, sister, and friend I want to be. The weekly coaching was life-changing, and for me, Jill and Stephanie’s availability is what makes the Academy so valuable."

"I joined The Academy after years of feeling unhappy, and it truly felt like an answer to prayer. As a Christmas gift from my husband, it became the best present I’ve ever received. In just five months, I’ve learned to process my thoughts and emotions in a whole new way, broken strongholds, grown closer to Christ, and gone from negative Nancy to positive Polly!"
INTRODUCING...

WHAT EXPOSES YOUR HEART... SETS YOU FREE.
SHARPENS YOU. STIRS YOU.
INVITES YOU TO ENGAGE WITH YOUR CREATOR.
YOU PARTICIPATE. HE TRANSFORMS YOU.
Your First Transformation Begins
January 1, 2026



"I was in a very challenging season emotionally, mentally, physically, and spiritually, and I was desperate to surrender it to God and take my thoughts captive to Christ. In the Academy, I found a powerful community devoted to His Word, coaching that helped me uncover the grief beneath my anger, and truth that moved me forward in healing. "
Five Transformations. Five Months. A Whole New You.
Wake Up Excited about your life, engaged with a purpose, plan, and tools that help you navigate emotions, decision-making, relationships, and anything life throws your way
A Massive Support Structure with accountability, coaching, road-maps, templates, checklists, and more so you can stop spinning in overwhelm and confusion about what to do next
An Intimate Community of Christian Women who are on the same path so you are never alone
Enter your bullet points here..
MONTH ONE
We’ll kick off The Academy with something hands-on and practical. Each week, you’ll be organizing real spaces in your home—your closet, your pantry, your junk drawer—while also learning to organize your internal world to match.
As you sort through what stays and what goes in your physical space, you’ll begin to notice similar shifts happening inside. You’ll start to feel clearer. Calmer. More connected to what actually matters to you.
This month is about more than just tidying up. It’s about practicing a simple, repeatable process that helps you let go—physically and mentally. You’ll learn how to release what no longer fits: the clutter in your home and the thoughts that weigh you down. And in that process, you’ll create space for what brings you joy, reflects your values, and supports the woman you’re becoming.
This is where your transformation begins: not just in your mind, not just in your heart, but in your actual, everyday life. Drawer by drawer. Thought by thought. Step by step.
MONTH TWO
You’ll go from resisting or getting swept up in your emotions to recognizing them as an invitation to engage with God. Maybe you’re used to pushing your feelings down so you can power through the day, or maybe you tend to spiral and feel stuck when emotions hit hard. Either way, you’ll learn a new way forward. I’ll show you how to pause, feel what’s really going on, and bring it to the Lord. You’ll identify four specific emotions you want to create more of in your life and four emotions you’ve been avoiding. I’ll walk you through how to increase the feelings you want to have and how to move through the ones you’ve been running from. Instead of reacting in ways you later regret, you’ll begin responding from a place of peace, clarity, and connection. Your emotions won’t be something to fear or fix. They’ll become a way God meets you right where you are.
MONTH THREE
MONTH FOUR
This month is about learning how to speak when it would feel easier to stay quiet, and how to stay grounded when it would feel easier to lash out. You’ll choose one conversation you’ve been avoiding and you’ll practice what it means to speak with both truth and love.
You’ll stop rehearsing what you wish you could say and actually say it with kindness, courage, and clarity. You’ll notice the shift when your voice shakes a little, but you don’t pull back. When you stay soft without shrinking. When you no longer explode or go silent, but speak in a way that brings both honesty and peace into the room.
This is how connection is built. Not by managing conflict, but by showing up with your full heart. You’ll stop fearing hard conversations and start recognizing them as holy ground, because you know how to stay rooted in love and led by the Spirit, even when it’s hard.
MONTH FIVE
You know the pattern. The thought that shows up before you even open your eyes in the morning. The mental loop that plays in the background while you’re making dinner, folding laundry, trying to rest. It pulls at your focus and weighs down your heart.
This month, you’ll name it. That fear, that regret, that unspoken belief that’s been holding space in your mind for far too long. And gently, you’ll begin to release it.
Not by forcing it out, but by turning toward something stronger. As you walk through this process, you’ll notice the shift. The old story loses its grip. The voice of fear grows quiet. In its place, something new takes root.
You’ll feel yourself begin to lean. Not on control. Not on certainty. But on the presence of God. The One who steadies your thoughts when they start to spin. The One who becomes your refuge when you feel overwhelmed. The One you begin to trust with the things you used to carry alone.
This is where you stop giving energy to what has drained you and start rebuilding on something unshakable. His truth. His promises. His peace. This is what it feels like when God becomes your stronghold.



" I joined the Academy because I was discouraged and depressed, stuck in a cycle of negative thinking, and didn’t know how to get myself out of it—even traditional counseling left me spinning. By God’s hand, Jill’s Happy Marriage Mindset appeared in my feed, and I felt God telling me the Academy was His answer to my struggle. I actually feel happy again—more calm, grounded, confident, and open—and the mood of our marriage has transformed from closed and hopeless to happy and open. Life isn’t just happening to me anymore; I will always see that my life is full of choices."
YOU'LL GET ACCESS TO:

A Spirit-led, step-by-step process to help you renew your mind, process emotions, and create lasting change. You won’t be guessing—you’ll have clear steps, practical tools, and a guide walking with you as you make five powerful transformations that shape how you think, feel, and live.

You’ll be surrounded by a small group of Spirit-filled women who are doing the deep, personal work of transformation right alongside you. Together, you’ll grow in faith, share honestly, and support one another through every step of the journey—you won’t walk it alone.


Everything you need to put the work into motion. Each month, you’ll receive straightforward lessons, guided worksheets, and easy-to-use tools that make growth practical, personal, and doable—so you’re not just learning, you’re living it.

Each week, we’ll come together live to walk through the worksheet and apply the tools in real time. You’ll have space to reflect, ask questions, and see how others are using the process—so you’re never stuck, spinning, or trying to figure it out alone.

You’ll have ongoing access to a private Slack group where you can ask questions, share what you’re working through, and connect with your cohort and coaches anytime. I check in regularly and typically respond within a few hours (except when I am sleeping
) —so you’re never left feeling alone or unsure between calls.

Each month, you’ll meet one-on-one with Coach Stephanie for personalized guidance and focused support. These sessions are where clarity deepens, emotions settle, and your next steps become clear—tailored to the transformation God is leading you through.

You’ll learn a simple, powerful process to explore what you’re thinking, feeling, and believing—so you can respond with intention instead of staying stuck. You’ll also have the option to submit your Heart Scans in writing and receive personal feedback from me in Slack—so you’re supported between coaching calls, too.

Can’t make it live? Want to revisit a breakthrough moment? Every coaching and workshop call is recorded and stored in your private portal along with the lessons so you can learn, reflect, and grow whenever you need it.
BONUS #1 - VALUE: $900
Join us for an unforgettable experience at The Happiest Lives Weekend in the fall of 2025, where you get to hug the necks of all your cohorts and meet VIP Academy alumni. Enjoy free admission and lodging at this intimate event (travel and food not included).


BONUS #2 - VALUE: $20
Captivate your space with the timeless beauty of an 8x10 art print featuring the inspiring verses of Isaiah 43:18-19. Created with passion and precision by Story Designs, this masterpiece will breathe new life into your surroundings and uplift your soul.
BONUS #3 - VALUE: $900
Instant and lifetime access to exclusive bonus courses including “Mastering The Heart Scan" and The 5 Day Heart Scan Workshop LIVE Call Replays. These powerful classes will give you full access to comprehensive written lessons, engaging videos, course workbooks, and templates for 30 days of Heart Scans, a feelings list, and video replays of live coaching sessions.


BONUS #4 - VALUE: $35
A Journey to Deeper Connection- Receive a beautifully crafted journal spanning two months, designed to help you establish a daily practice of managing your mind and heart, thus empowering you to lead a more mindful life and cultivate stronger relationships. The journal includes 60 Thought Capturing Pages, 60 Heart Scan Pages, 60 Scripture Prayer Pages, 60 Idea & Dream Download Pages, and 60 Quick Day
Planning Pages.
BONUS #5 - VALUE: $1000
Benefit from unlimited access to all course materials, including in-depth lessons, interactive exercises, and exclusive content. Whether you’re revisiting concepts or exploring new updates, this bonus ensures that you have ongoing support to continually grow and thrive


Upon graduation, you’ll be invited to join VIP—a private cohort of Academy graduates who are continuing their transformation together. As a VIP member, you’ll receive ongoing benefits like monthly group coaching calls, 1:1 coaching in Slack, and free tickets to The Happiest Lives Weekend—all for less than the cost of one therapy session. It’s a powerful way to stay connected, supported, and growing forward—without starting over.

" I will never be the same! Through the Academy, I’ve learned how to process my emotions, tend to my thoughts, and apply God’s Word in practical, life-changing ways. The support from Jill and the Slack community helped me get unstuck and stay grounded. I was “all in,” and it’s led me to feel whole again—rooted in Christ and moving forward with clarity and purpose."

CHOOSE THE BEST PLAN FOR YOU!
WHEN YOU USE THE COUPON CODE- FEELINGS
A ONE-TIME PAYMENT OF
Includes access to five months of deep, Spirit-led transformation...
The 5 Transformation Framework
Weekly Live Coaching Calls
Monthly Private1:1 Coaching Sessions
Weekly Worksheet Workshops
Daily Heart Scan Coaching
The Happiest Lives Toolbox
Small Cohort of Christian Women
24/7 Access To private SLACK community
ON Demand Access to lessons and call replays
BONUS #1: Free Event Ticket+Lodging at The Happiest Lives Weekend (fall 2026)
BONUS #2: Stunning Print from Story Designs Isaiah 43
BONUS #4: The Happiest Lives Spiral Bound 2-Month Guided Journal
BONUS #5: Lifetime access to curriculum
BONUS #6: Upon Graduation, Eligible for Exclusive VIP status
PAY IN FULL BONUS- save $300
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6 MONTHLY PAYMENTS OF
Includes access to five months of deep, Spirit-led transformation...
The 5 Transformation Framework
Weekly Live Coaching Calls
Monthly Private1:1 Coaching Sessions
Weekly Worksheet Workshops
Daily Heart Scan Coaching
The Happiest Lives Toolbox
Small Cohort of Christian Women
24/7 Access To private SLACK community
ON Demand Access to lessons and call replays
BONUS #1: Free Event Ticket+Lodging at The Happiest Lives Weekend (fall 2026)
BONUS #2: Stunning Print from Story Designs Isaiah 43
BONUS #4: The Happiest Lives Spiral Bound 2-Month Guided Journal
BONUS #5: Lifetime access to curriculum
BONUS #6: Upon Graduation, Eligible for Exclusive VIP status
PAY IN FULL BONUS- save $300
Enter your bullet points here..


You feel stuck—whether in a relationship, a habit, a pattern of thinking, or a lack of purpose or direction.
You’re tired of spinning your wheels and are ready to take ownership of your thoughts, emotions, and choices.
You’re done trying to figure things out alone—you want a structured path, deep support, and faith-based guidance.
You sense there’s more ahead for you—and you’re ready to step into your God-given identity and calling.
You’re willing to show up with an open heart and let God meet you right where you are.
You want to grow alongside a group of committed Christian women who are on a similar path.
You're committed to the full process of Five Transformations and willing to be actively engaged with the tools and group.
You want someone else to change first.
You aren’t open to a biblical worldview or faith-based growth.
You prefer to learn passively instead of actively participating.
You are in a crisis situation that requires clinical therapy or intervention.
You are hoping this can be a substitute for diagnosing or treating clinical depression or other mood disorders that need therapeutic support. This program is not a substitute for therapy, though it can be a meaningful companion to it.
You are looking for a quick fix or don’t have the time or emotional space to invest right now.
If you’re craving support but you’re not ready for a high-touch, structured program, Clarity + Courage might be a better fit.
It offers steady support, fewer calls, and a flexible pace—perfect for a full schedule or a gentler season.
Same faith-based approach. Just lighter and more spacious. Learn more HERE.



"During the Heart Scan Workshop, I felt a strong pull to join the Academy, and I am so glad I did. I’m feeling more peace, grace, and a desire to release things like bitterness and unforgiveness—and best of all, I have a strategy to use when I don’t know how to handle my feelings – The Heart Scan. I’ve uncovered broken records in my mind, learned to challenge my thoughts, and I see more and more in scripture that the Spirit is working in me to change me. All the components in the Academy work together like a finely tuned recipe, and I’m so thankful for the love, encouragement, and Spirit-filled leadership of Jill and Stephanie."
ABOUT YOUR COACH
Jill Lillard is a Licensed Professional Counselor, Certified Gottman Couples Therapist, Certified Life Coach through The Life Coach School, and Certified Brain Health Practitioner through the Amen Clinic.
With over 25 years of experience, Jill has helped people navigate their desires, emotions, and relationships.
As the creator of The Happiest Lives Coaching Programs, she empowers Christian women to live, love, and lead purposefully by deepening their relationship with God and developing emotional, spiritual, and relational resilience.
Jill’s approach helps people capture their thoughts and renew their minds to take action despite unwanted emotions. She believes in leveraging emotions for spiritual growth and transformation rather than avoiding or numbing them. Jill offers practical tools like Heart Scanning and the FEEL Method to help her clients approach their feelings with grace and clarity.
Through her coaching programs, including Clarity + Courage and The Happiest Lives Academy, Jill provides steady support and guidance to women ready to experience meaningful change in their lives and relationships. A passionate advocate for transformation, she believes in the power of God’s love and wisdom to shape every woman’s journey, helping them become the woman God says they already are.
Jill is the host of The Happiest Lives Podcast, where she shares insights on faith, personal growth, and navigating life’s challenges and relationships with a Christ-centered perspective.

- My faith is important to me. I am curious as to what you believe?Jill is a preferred counselor of The Focus On The Family and is in agreement with their statement of faith. https://www.focusonthefamily.com/about/foundational-values/.
God’s Word is the foundation for everything we do here and we believe your relationship with Jesus is central. While the Academy is not tied to any one denomination, it is rooted in Christian values and teaching. We’ve had members from a variety of backgrounds, including Protestant, Catholic, and varions denominations. If you’re seeking to grow in your relationship with Jesus and apply biblical truth to your emotional and relational life, you’ll feel right at home. - I am not sure I am Christian enough for this. Will I fit in?You don’t need to be at a certain level of spiritual maturity to join us. Some women in past cohorts were brand new to their faith, while others have walked with the Lord for decades. What matters most is that you’re open to growing and understand that this program is grounded in a biblical worldview. If you’re willing to explore how your relationship with God connects to your emotional and relational life, you’ll be right at home here.
- Do I have to be married ?Absolutely not. We have had married women, divorced women, single women and those in the middle of a separation all participate in our coaching groups.
- What kind of access will I get to Jill as a member of The Academy?You’ll have daily access to Jill in our private Slack community, where you can ask questions and receive Heart Scan coaching throughout the week. You’ll also join her live each week for group coaching calls. In addition, you’ll be supported by Coach Stephanie, who leads our weekly Worksheet Workshop and offers 1:1 coaching. You won’t be alone in this—you’ll have consistent, personalized support every step of the way.
- When will LIVE calls be? What if I cannot attend?The Coaching Call is scheduled to occur on Tuesdays at 10 AM CT. The Worksheet Workshop will be on Thursdays at 10 AM CT. While we don't anticipate it, these times are subject to change. Though live attendance is strongly encouraged, if you cannot attend calls live, replays will always be available in the vault.
- When does The Happiest Lives Academy start and end?The program in five months and runs from January to May.
- How much time do I need to invest?The program includes 120 minutes of live calls each week. You’ll also want to set aside 1–3 hours for weekly lessons, worksheets, and Heart Scans—depending on how deep you choose to go and what your season of growth looks like. Daily Heart Scans are encouraged and can easily fit into your quiet time or morning routine. Slack access is available 24/7, and how much you engage there is totally up to you.
- What kind of payments do you accept and are there scholarships available?We accept credit card and PayPal. You can choose to pay in full (and receive a discount) or opt for a monthly payment plan. If finances are a concern but you’re committed to doing the work, reach out about a partial scholarship—we never want money to be the reason you miss this opportunity. We also believe that investing in yourself helps you show up more fully. Email me at Jill@thehappiestlives.com to ask about scholarships.
- What is your refund or cancellation policy?We do not offer refunds or cancellations. We will be fully dedicated and committed to you, and we ask that you be fully dedicated and committed to the program for the full duration of 5 months. We know our system and strategy work if you work it. And the level of support is second to none!
- Where will I find the tools needed for my new transformation each month?You can access all content at www.myhappyvault.com. Each month everything you need for the new transformation will unlock. If you live in the United States you will receive a workbook in the mail at your house.
- What platform is used for coaching?We use Zoom app for all coaching calls. You can also get written coaching on The Heart Scan channel inside Slack.
- What is SLACK?SLACK organizes conversations and interactions on a private forum, bringing people together to work as one unified team. This is the place where you will connect with other women in The Happiest Lives Academy, receive news/updates, get Heart Scan feedback/coaching, and share inspirational resources, scriptures, and thoughts.

"The Academy has given me the sisters and friends I never had. The love, support, and shared experiences reminded me I'm never alone—God is with us, and so is this incredible community. The coaching access was amazing—from live calls to one-on-ones and workshops—which played a huge role in my growth. I've experienced more joy, real progress, and made lifelong friends along the way.."

FOR A ONE-TIME PAYMENT OF $4800 OR 6 MONTHLY PAYMENTS OF $850*
*partial scholarships available upon inquiry jill@thehappiestlives.com



"One of the biggest transformations for me has been learning to organize my thoughts and recognize that it’s not my circumstances, but the thoughts I assign to them, that shape my experience. I’ve let go of much of my perfectionism and need for control, and I’m now seeing others—especially my husband—through the eyes of love. I'm becoming the woman I’ve always wanted to be: a happier wife and mother, more present, connected, and grounded in God's love. The Academy made this growth possible. The community, support, and coaching have been invaluable—worth every penny. "
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